Defining out feelings is one of the toughest job in this world......u like some1, u hate sum1, ur jealous at time and at time ur worried.....sometimes ur ego comes in the way sometimes ur attitude. So how do we maintain these feelings.....the answer is we don't. We can never control what we feel or direct it one direction.....we feel what we feel. The best option that is in our hand is to try and differentiate our feelings. Love is different from like.......similarly hate is different from prejudice....each feeling has its place in our life we have to learn to express them.
Don't judge what you feel......you may be wrong
talk it out and then see......if your mind's following your heart